It's important to note: Women are often mis-diagnosed with BPD or NPD. What they actually have is Complex Post Traumatic Stress "Disorder" or Response (PTSD or PTSR). Many of my clients have had CPTSR.

You may have internalized what you saw and what you heard from a parent with BPD or NPD. This is simply conditioning in response to family dynamics and abuse.

Subconscious patterns such as: "This is how a woman / mother is or what she does. This is how a man / father is or does", can be imprinted and cloud your lens of what is and isn't appropriate or abusive behavior.

You may have some behaviors like fear of abandonment or "control issues" but that does not mean you have BPD or NPD. It can mean you simply have trauma responses that've been misinterpreted.

The good news is these trauma responses can be treated and resolved.

This private membership is reserved for women who've been deeply affected by significant relationships with people who have borderline and narcissistic personalities.

With respect, this would not be the appropriate place for you to receive the support you need.

Each meeting is 1hour and 15 mins. It follows a format that remains consistent.

You're welcome to drop in at any time. You're welcome to leave early if you have to.

Each meeting is packed with value! We hope you'll stay for the entire time.

Note: Meetings can occasionally run over the time alotted.

You don't have to have a diagnosis from a licenced professional therapist about the person in question's pathology.

You qualify to be a member if you believe or even suspect they have a borderline or naricissstic personality and that you've been deeply affected by their treatment of you.

There is an out-cropping of borderline and narcissistic traits and pathology worldwide.

It's difficult to get a diagnosis because the nature of this illness often is that, they don't know their treatment of you or anyone, is abusive.

They tend not to seek out or stay with the help and treatment they need.

If you feel called to join as a member but you're not 100% sure before hand, give it at least 2 - 6 meetings before deciding if this is right for you. It can take gentle time to allow your clarity to arrive.

In time you'll become crystal clear if you're truly dealing with borderline or naricissictic abuse. If it turns out that's not the case, we guarantee you will come away with incredible life skills when you must deal with difficult people, places and things.

Talk therapy has its value, but it often misses the deeper, subconscious imprinting on our biochemistry that truly drives us. While talking can ease pain, give you language for what happened to you and increase awareness, it doesn’t heal the root causes of trauma, especially those hidden beneath the surface of your every day awareness.

In my own journey, I found that talk therapy only addressed part of the problem. The real change happened when I moved beyond the limitations of talk therapy, working with a healer who delved deeper into subconscious conditioning—the hidden emotions and bio chemical reactions that shape our lives.

Albert Einstein wisely said, "We cannot solve problems by using the same kind of thinking that created them." This rings true for healing as well. To truly transform, we need to address these deeper layers, reset our conditioned expectations, false beliefs, biochemical, emotional and energetic imbalances.

My Eden Alchemia Method and the Heart of Sun Circle address all of this. Our holistic approach integrates mind, body and soul, offering spiritual, physical, and strategic solutions. We go far beyond what a single therapist session can provide.

Having felt isolated and alone in my own journey, even with support from friends and family who often had their own denial to contend with, I understand the need for a community that truly gets it. If you’ve felt lonely or misunderstood in your healing process, join us.

Our brave, supportive space is here to help you break free from isolation and reclaim your freedom.

We look forward to welcoming you and giving you the support you so richly deserve on your journey to genuine healing and liberation.

The specific topics of healing from relationships with borderline and narcissistic partners & parents are considered an "outside" issue.

It's extremely common for abuse at the hands of someone with a personality disorder to go hand in hand with the abuse of alcohol, drugs, sex, gambling and coercive control, etc.

Many 12 step members have found they cannot speak openly and specifically in their meetings about relationships with BPD/ NPD people. In general, they do not find the level of comprehension in fellow members, that they need, in order to address the unique nature of these tricky relational dynamics.

Keep in mind, sponsoring someone is a non-professional, unpaid service. Sponsors in 12 step programs (unless they themselves are educated and have personal experience about BPD and NPD, tend not to know how to make appropriate suggestions for someone in your situation. Often their suggestions can cause more harm than help.

Sponsors can often have their own denial and you may be more clued in than your sponsor.

12-Step members find a lot of relief, clarity and support in Heart Of Sun Circle around this very specific challenge and healing journey.

Absolutely, yes. Where there is one BP/NP person there are usually many.

Your subconscious mind, family of origin conditioning, epigenetic inheritances, untreated addictions, codependency, shocks and traumas that haven't been treated, create a kind of attractor field that make you attracted to and attractive to people with disordered personalities.

We always re-create what we have yet to understand or heal. This creates repetative patterns of disapointment and confusion despite your best intentions and efforts. This can show up in your work place, your romantic life and friendships.

This community is about helping you get free in all areas of your life whether the relationship happened 15 years ago or 15 mins.

Yes!

Time is set aside for Hayley to answer questions. The format of the meeting allows for questions to be asked and answered.

Depending on the # of members there that day, you may or not have an opportunity to have your question answered.

The chances of you hearing something either from Hayley or in a members' share, in the meeting that you happen to need and can learn from is very high!

If you've paid for 3 - 6 months or a year long membership within one year, in that same year, if you decide you're in need of an even more personalized private 1:1 experience, your membership payments will be deducted from the cost of your 1:1 work with me.

Your membership is free and included in the cost of working with me.

Even if you renew our 1:1 container, you can attend meetings for free.

When the container comes to an end, you're welcome to renew your membership and stay connected.

Yes!

You're welcome to reach out to other more exprienced members between meetings for support, if they're available and offer an exchange of contact info upon request.

Membership is auto- renewed either monthly, quarterly (3 months) or yearly depending on the subscription you select.

Supscriptions can be cancelled at any time.

Just send us an email to: connect@aoestudio.earth with your request, 24 hours prior to the next payment on your card to ensure your request can be completed.

Absolutely!

You can pause at any time and renew at any time. You can manage this by sending us an email with your request to cancel or pause to: connect@aoestudio.earth.

We must receive your request 24 hours before the next payment is due, to ensure it gets completed before your card is charged.

If you are in Europe or anywhere outside of the Americas, please let us know 48 hours prior to the next charge on your card.

We are working behind the scenes so that this can be autmatic and you can do it yourself.

Anonymity out side the group and the confidentiality of the group means we do not accomodate a free trial period. This is one of the ways we keep the meetings and community safe.

You're welcome to up or down grade your membership before the next billing cycle.

Just send us your request by email to: connect@aoestudio.earth up to 24 hours before the next billing cycle, to ensure your request can be completed on time.

If you are in Europe or anywhere outside of the Americas, please let us know 48 hours prior.

Due to the nature of the offering and the extensive time, preparation and intention that goes into creating and providing this membership refunds will not be issued.

Alchemy Of Eden Studio / Eden Alchemia does not issue refunds due to forgetting to cancel, lack of attendance, scheduling conflicts, overcommitting, or personal disagreements.

Please note that you are committed to 3 months or a year if you choose those options. You may cancel anytime, but you will not be refunded.

At this time, we cancel your membership on your behalf, no questions asked if you prefer, as long as we receive your request to cancel, via email: connect@aoestudio.earth.

As long as your request is recieved a minimum of 24 hours before your next payment is charged, all will be well.

You will not be refunded if you forget to cancel before you are charged for the next month, season, or year.

Please make a resourced and responsible decision.

You can review the terms and conditions of engaging our services [HERE]